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"The Life Anticipated"The Book by D. Franklin Green
“We should see people for who they ARE instead of who we WANT them to be! This is the challenge” D. Franklin Green
“The Life Anticipated” Solutions
Past Relationships
(Old Acquaintances) Letting Go!
We often recollect past relationships and the people who are now gone, some we miss greatly, some we may still harbor residual anger and resentment towards, lacking forgiveness for their past actions and betrayal. (See chapter: Forgiveness) Out of this, we can sometimes feel sorry for ourselves and begin drawing up plans and invitations for the newly anticipated pity party, wasting what can end up being an enormous amount of energy on what happened in the past, why it happened, how it happened and so on and so forth. LET IT GO! This may not be easy but it is possible when we adopt a renewed sense of Self-worth and a changed mindset, by us valuing bright future constructs rather than past experiences that failed, fell off, dislodged or disconnected, for whatever reason. Keep in mind, those past relationships and experiences were a part of your destiny-driven path and assisted, in whichever way, in getting you to we're you are today. Like stepping stones they have been strategically placed in our paths. They key here is to know, by instinct, when to keep it moving even when those from your past surface. In my opinion, the people who are worth being re-connected with never dis-connected with me in the first place! Unless you were the one totally responsible for the previous failed attempt in the relationship practically every time you Allow the partner of the failed relationship back into your life it soon becomes apparent why you really don’t need this person in your life AGAIN. You either recognize old negative ways and habits or you find that they are still lazy or deceptive and lie incessantly or, even worse, you discover they are seeing someone else on the side and now you’re faced with wondering whether you’re THE ONE or just lover number two, or three, or four,,,? We don’t deserve this type of promiscuous union period! My present mindset, that now resist the allowance of such Self-Abuse, has indeed caused me to feel dejected, alienated, introverted and even lonely at times. In those moments of loneliness I sometimes cry, allowing myself to experience the overwhelming flow of emotions without resistance and then I suddenly remember that this is only my current situational reality and the realization that God has a plan for me and my future life suddenly kicks in and I begin to feel much better, a peaceful calmness comes over my Spirit and I know that it will be all right. For only after we let go of the old can we truly have a clear mind and vision for the new. What also becomes apparent is how important it is to TRUST that God’s plan for my life will manifest, knowing that plan will also entail the most beautiful, Loving and trustworthy people and relationships for my life. This assurance totally compensates for any prior lack experienced in one's past relationships. This I know!